I will write about two different phenomena that have arisen in the last week, the idea that women lie about rape and the notion that young unemployed people are just lazy and spoiled, and what does this have to do with each?
Picture shamelessly twisting from http://hej.blekk.se/ There are many who have already written yoga pants very well about the problem in this, including Lo, Fanny and of course Michaela then. But a little yoga pants short, a well describe it all like this:
We live in a society yoga pants where rape is a big and real problem yoga pants that primarily affects, and is a threat to women and people who are perceived as women. Admittedly, it's a problem that in theory be taken seriously, everyone hates a rapist in theory. But as soon as one wants to go deeper into the problem of rape culture, as soon as a specific example discussed so will the debate be hijacked by an offended (usually) man who'll point out that "but it actually happens to women LIE about being raped." This conversation, false rape accusations, pointed yoga pants from a certain group of men to the extent that one can easily believe that this is a huge problem. I have met men (and women) who are convinced that it is not just plain false accusations, but also is so easy for a woman to get a man accused and convicted yoga pants of rape in virtually no grounds at all, and it often requires that I black and white statistics show that in fact it is really difficult to get someone convicted of rape even if the rape actually occurred. Most accusations lead not even prosecuted, even fewer to a conviction. But not even this is enough sometimes to get them out of their error. The idea that "women yoga pants lie about rape" is too widespread yoga pants and strong. This leads of course to those that tell of rapes they suffered (which often requires a huge mod) is more difficult to be believed. I have met people who have lost friends when they told me about her rape because they chose to believe that they lied.
Do not misunderstand me, I naturally believe that newspapers will write about all the different events in the community. yoga pants But they choose to have this on the run of the war headlines (as distinct from what they usually do with real rape, a little notice). Probably because yoga pants they KNOW that this is a sensitive topic that many like to horrified over and a show that many people want to hold on to. They do not care that they pour water on the mill who claim that false rape accusations are a widespread phenomenon and actually hurt the vulnerable. They would rather that people read their free paper so they can get money from their advertisers than to take responsibility for vulnerable young women's sake.
But I would of course also talk about "lazy youths" too. What does that have to do with rape? Not much at all really. But the phenomenon to a phenomenon and get it to be about something else entirely (with a "blame the victim" analysis) to get the problem seem less serious recurs in both cases. We have a society with unemployment growing rapidly and is particularly yoga pants high among the young group. Unemployment is probably due to different things and the explanation is of course the economic crisis. But while we have a society that is becoming increasingly automated. It requires less labor and will be needed less and less over time. I heard a while sedan elderly lady tell me about how she got her job Race. She called simply, untrained and inexperienced, to Sahlgrenska hospital and asked if there were any job, and then had come back the next evening to night monitoring patients in coma. Today, this would have been an impossibility.
All of us who were young, inexperienced and new to the labor market after the crisis hit knows what hell it is. The feeling of anxiety that arises every day that goes by without you getting jobs. Self-hatred that comes when you applied for a job as a telemarketer though yoga pants you really think that telemarketing is a disgusting occupation that should not exist, and then not even get called for an interview. How one every time you have to tell us about your unemployment feel you have to point out how much the job you are looking for, every day, not to anyone to get the idea that you are one of those lazy people who just lies on the couch. Must explain and defend themselves. Thanklessly has written good about including this.
For sure, there are ungrateful and lazy young people who just want to have well-paying media job and would rather live at home, before it happens. Just as there are women who lie about rape. But maybe you should think about what one chooses to focus primarily on and what it actually provides for consequences for those who make the greatest disadvantage, in this case, rape victims and unemployed youth. Just as the focus on false rape results in rape becomes less taken seriously as a result focus on "lazy youths" to
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