Fri, July 11
Naistekale told his story of one brave father who is raising his two-year-old daughter alone. The child's mother, Marguse ex-wife, who was pregnant Margus baby lying on the pill, and gave birth to a very young age, did not have to strain and moved abroad to start a new life there. Here is the story of Marguse.
I'm not going to get access to our meeting and the story dwell. Start with the fact that we met, got married, we were young and in love. The first mistake was that I married a much younger woman, the second mistake was to marry her very soon. He did not go to university, but began immediately after graduating from high school to earn money by working once here, once there, cleaners, receptionist, secretary madewell waiters. And a few months after his marriage, he began to talk about the work of solvents. Is said to have always wanted a large family, and wants to be a mother of a young and energetic. I also wanted a child, I had been thinking about for a long time, and represents our initial meetings in advance that this woman could become the mother of my children. Since then, he was only 19, I asked him to wait a bit, go to school, to celebrate, to enjoy life, because the child is, after all, it can not be done, but he did not listen. He lied to me to take birth control pills, showed even a tablet website which pill each day a little more left, so I'm not worried. Until he had two stripes on a pregnancy. Of course, I was glad that my dream was being fulfilled, madewell after all! I will be a father!
Later, looking back, I realized that she really madewell wanted a baby because I think that one of the girlfriends madewell he had just received, and it also seemed like a good cute and sweet. Besides, he always wanted everything that others had or had not ever be satisfied. But it seemed to me then just a cute whim.
During pregnancy, she enjoyed the attention, care for themselves, went to the doctor and to properly read the parenting books. I was happier. I had a beautiful wife and daughter being born, could not wished for more. Maternity went well, I was at her daughter's madewell umbilical cord cut out, and I realized that my life has now changed madewell dramatically. Anneli did not understand it yet.
Although the baby was calm, slept, did not suffer very bad gas pains and I was trying to help her be a way I could, I noticed how the woman was every day more and more miserable, tired, angry. I took care for the child herself when I was at home, soothe and messy diapers, formulas did. Laundry washed and cleaned up the home itself, because Anneli never reached. Understood. But we fought a lot, blame his mood swings postpartum depression. But the kids did not leave, he never neglected.
When the daughter was eight months old, the woman that is now going on a trip, because madewell he needs to relax a little bit and wanted some peace and quiet. Moreover, he was one of the best friends just recently moved to London, madewell and she wanted to see him. I did not have nothing against it, the baby was only three months, and breast madewell and bottle mähkmevahetus economy was evident to me. Not afraid to stay alone with him at all. Anneli I paid for the trip, I gave the money to the travel and escorted him to the airport.
Two weeks went by quickly. During the first week, talked by phone every day, he always madewell asked the child, told me what he does, which goes and sees what. At first, sounded like he would have it even boring, of course, later it turned out that I was not nearly discussed. At the end of the week were a few calls that, in the end did not even answer my calls anymore, at best, the messages were sent. We, however, was the daughter of a great time together, we went walking around and visiting friends, acquaintances, fortunately, we had more babies.
Then she came back, but had changed his attitude madewell toward us. Now, we went to her nerves. Tita was angry, yell at him, he did not bother anymore to play with the baby. I think he was too controlling, neglectful, and so can not evaluate him. During a quarrel with one another, as he had previously consumed alcohol, he shouted to me, which he actually was engaged over there. madewell Copious amounts of partying, he became himself again, the woman felt she had time to think about what he'd like to get started with your life and how to move forward. In his life, he is now down only to London. Namely, he also met a young man James (well, of course!), Who was very helpful, introduced him to his friends, and is willing to help them in their work, to find apartments and baby holder. I was not yet willing to give up, settle down, and we agreed that kolimegi away. Together. Also, I was not really madewell a new experience, something already started to annoy the old job and I believed that I can be there to find a cost-effective agency. The main thing that I could be with my daughter.
As Anneli was anxious to go right now and could no longer survive on the surface of a second homeland, and repeatedly threatened to take the child, and to subtract them in my life forever erased, I agree with everything that came out of it. The idea of him as a failure did not seem terrible, but the idea that I will not see her baby, it was unbearable.
